Festival Of The Living Rooms IV

[ericcoleman]

New Zoom link for Saturday:
https://us02web.zoom.us/j/87590868440…
Meeting ID: 875 9086 8440
Passcode: Hint: It's why we're here. The ____ community. Four letters, lowercase.
No intentionally rude behavior. No rude activity on camera, including the dude who was freebasing cocaine. No obscenities in chat or other abuse. I’d apologize because I threw out someone’s friend for that last night, but given the bomber attacks, no. That is not acceptable behavior. If it acts like a bomber, it is.

At 7:00 on Saturday, we will play a recording of Naomi Pardue singing “My Thousand Closest Friends.” Then I will ask if people would like to break into two groups, an ‘absent friends’ circle, and an open circle, and take a vote.

Comments

[mneme]

I feel like having people vote with their feet is more effective than a majority vote for the circle split. If 45% of the circle wants to split, then a result of a majority saying "nope" is no split and 45% being unhappy; the result of a foot vote for which circle you want to be in either results in one circle (and the 55% being happy) or two circles, likely one much smaller (and more than 55% are likely "happy enough").

[madfilkentist]

My reaction to the cursing incident is mixed. On the one hand, I get really tired of people spewing curses and anger on Internet forums and don't want to normalize it.

On the other hand, if the incident was the one I think it was, the singer was introducing a song about her abusive ex-husband, giving some background information, and the comment was in support of her, the curse word directed at the ex-husband. That's not very similar to a "bombing" incident, where people invade a conference or singing session just to be disruptive. I would have issued a warning first.

[ericcoleman]

The cursing incident was a kid zoom bombing the room. I was there for that.

[ericcoleman]

Oh, I should have said. This was Lemm’s post cut and pasted here.